Celebrating Valentine’s Day with Abortion Care

For this year’s Valentine’s Day, we are sharing the love with our PATH program members and, of course, abortion care. Read on for a few messages, love letters and poems our PATH members have written in ode to abortion care.

Jessica, PATH Member

“If it were not for my abortion, I would not have the ability to show self-love today. If it were not for my abortion, I would not have the capacity to express my love for others today.

If it were not for my abortion, I would not be able to teach my future child(ren) what it is to truly love and care for others. I want every person who had an abortion to know that your decision is valid and that you are loved!”

Maria, PATH Member

“When faced with medical complications, the termination of a pregnancy is an act of love so great that it is incomprehensible to many.

When I had my abortion, the process included labor and delivery. While I experienced all the pain of childbirth and loss, my sweet son knew only the love of a mother.

Abortion is an unfathomable expression of love.”

Monica, PATH Member

I love abortions

I love abortion havers

I love abortion seekers

I love abortion protectors

I love abortion educators

I love abortion providers

I love abortion workers

I love abortion clinics

I love abortion supporters

I love abortion doulas

I love abortion funds

I love abortion pills

I love abortion consolers

I am an abortion storyteller

Joana, PATH Member

“To me, my abortion was an act of self-love. I decided to choose myself over anyone else. That didn’t mean that I wasn’t still scared of what my loved ones would think.

But to my surprise, those who I was most worried about were the most understanding and embraced me and my decision.

My abortion is a reminder to always love myself and the rest will follow.”

Melanie, PATH Member

A love letter to someone who is getting an abortion

You are enough. You are supported. You are making the right decision for yourself and your body. You will see the light at the end of the tunnel. You decide what’s best for you, not others. You are so strong.

“When I had my abortion, what got me through it was knowing that I was making the right decision for me. What helped me was being able to come back to a place that brought me comfort and peace.”

Claire, PATH Member

“For anyone considering abortion I want you to know that you are so loved and cared for.

Your heart is strong and you are not alone in your thoughts and feelings.

Don’t be afraid to reach out for support, as there are so many of us who understand your struggle and are ready to comfort you with open arms. Sending you so much love during this time.”

Maleeha, PATH Member

When I had my first abortion, I was struggling and not in a good place emotionally. What got me through, though, were my family and friends. People I love created a circle of support around me and lifted me up. I was deeply touched and felt the love.

If you are considering having an abortion, too, I hope that your loved ones create that circle of support around you. If that does not happen, remember that we at TEA Fund will always be your circle of support. We are here for you, and remember, abortion IS an act of love.

Tessa, PATH Member

“In times when we could really use some extra love, I just want to say thank you to every employee at every clinic. Thank you for seeing us.

We needed you.”

Madison, PATH Member

I had my abortion because of love. Love for myself but also for my future family. My abortion allowed me to get out of survival mode and build a better life. My abortion was an act of selflessness.

I have no regrets about my abortion, only about how hard I was on myself.

I did what was best for my life.

I hope every abortion-haver knows this:

I see you and I love you.

Your decision is the right one.

 

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